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Just finished working with Angela Dahlem on our upcoming Women Healing Women Pilot Program. We went in to some deep revealing work, answering journal prompts that let us see our unconscious beliefs and fears. Making the unconscious conscious – how could we ever let go of these things if we… Continue reading
I’ve been to dozens of classes in my life. I remember when I first started going to classes to learn about different kinks. At the time, I was just starting out as a professional dominatrix. This had evolved from clients asking for kinky activities during their sensual massages. As I… Continue reading
Someone will be interested in you or not. The best thing you can do is be yourself as much as possible. It doesn’t matter who you are with or what you are doing as long as you are being yourself. Learn to give yourself the attention and adoration you desire…. Continue reading
Right now I am surrendering to my desire to have a healthy body. The desire to have more energy available to focus on business, school, family, and pleasure. To stop energy leaks. What does that look like? Getting up early even when I’d rather sleep. Seeing my personal trainer and… Continue reading
With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives. I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable. I’m lucky I don’t have to be. This is the erotic gratitude list I shared on facebook. It will be salacious and lascivious compared to most facebook… Continue reading
Insights from personal inventory and pleasure practices. This is an example of what comes out of the work I teach. I’ll be sharing about it during my upcoming (free) Female Pleasure Challenge next week. Join my group at 100 Pussy Project | Facebook, go to the events, and RSVP so… Continue reading