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Follow me on eventbrite for events https://www.eventbrite.com/o/sex-coach-nikki-10520545898 • Female ejaculation aka Squirting can be super, super pleasurable, and also you can have a lot of pleasure without it. So don’t think you’re doing something wrong if you can’t achieve it. But I do believe every woman can access it. Every… Continue reading
Someone will be interested in you or not. The best thing you can do is be yourself as much as possible. It doesn’t matter who you are with or what you are doing as long as you are being yourself. Learn to give yourself the attention and adoration you desire…. Continue reading
Do you think it is truly possible to put self-care, including self-pleasure, first? I see it espoused all the time – to prioritize yourself. Take care of yourself. I move in circles where they prioritize pleasure above everything else. Use it as a foundation and a basis for life and… Continue reading
What is your favorite mindfulness practice? I just had a great meditation! There are so many practices that have us get into the present moment. The particular practice I just did is called existential kink. You can google it for more info but I’ll share my experience here. See –… Continue reading
With all the gratitude posts I see the continual neutering of our lives. I get it, we need to be appropriate and acceptable. I’m lucky I don’t always have to be. I’m going to share my erotic gratitude list here. It will be salacious and lascivious compared to most facebook… Continue reading
New year’s resolutions usually fail. While I do like to set intentions and goals and play with the energy of a fresh year I don’t wait for a new year to start. There are ways to make goals more achievable, but many people don’t even set erotic goals. You can… Continue reading